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The conversation I had with her this evening got me thinking…are men never to be trusted? Is it worthwhile to get your hopes that high on someone that you THOUGHT was the fcukin’ one…but ended-up to be a cheating d-head! (Humming the song by Kate Nash ~ with my annoying low tones) Her whole situation reminded me exactly how it felt when my previous relationship went from super-exhilarating to super-destructive. I was very glad mine ended even if during that point of time, it felt like a few missiles were launched and landed precisely on the spot where it hurt the most ~ a perfect bullsye! I ‘recovered’ by vomitting myself out of it (yes.pathetic.). I wasn’t being a good listener as I was trying to get her to understand things from my point of view which obviously supports her without much queries and putting all the fault on her other half; blame it on my previous fcuk-up past.
“Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus” ~ is one of the most interesting piece I’ve ever read before, as it shows how men and women have diverse perceptions and views running through their minds…However..bear in mind that no two people are alike..regardless of their gender…but I believe that when it comes to cheaters, men and women have a lot in common. The longer you are in a relationship with someone, the more you understand their habits and attitudes. Any slight changes in behavior (for both sexes) can be easily detected and you may perceive them as signs of cheating. I might be a strong believer in logics and relevancy as all reasonable explanantions must first be made using the mind… but if you still have a gut feeling that something is still awfully twisted, there are times where you shouldn’t be ignoring those ’signs’ as your heart knows better.
I don’t have any good ‘advices’ to give you my dear friend, as I am a failure myself…
….but fret not, I’ll be here to listen and even cry with ya
( Could we just fly away and never come back?)
♥ Love hurts. Love sucks. Most of the time. ♥
P/s: VBF came to the rescue! Hoorahhh!
isnt that ♥ icon sooooooo contagious and addictive? m beginning to like it! (ironically. duh~ ahaha).
“Love hurts. Love sucks. Most of the time.”
indeed. BUT good/great stuff comes with pretty great price (which in this case is RISK) as well, dont u think?. ermm..i might not be the best person to give advices lah kan, but dont let past shiet break u and leave u with the same ugly skidmark. instead, just be greatfull that we (aii napa we ni ar? ahhahaha) manage to pull ourselves (our??) through the mess. which means, it didnt kill us, it has made us stronger
another thing, there is always, ALWAYS a reason(s) why the person/thing from your past never made it to your present
sekian dan terima kasih. itu sahaja hujah saya pada hari ini.
p.s: bukan mau backup guys okay. u know i heart u retardees. i just wanna makesure that we could see things in both sides
.xx.
i n d e n k a b i n c h
May 5, 2009 at 12:01 am
*huggs*
Girllyen
May 5, 2009 at 10:36 am
I love that miley song too
Nasib kau inda kena langgar..Thank God
emelda
May 19, 2009 at 1:40 pm
ui mel, bila kau dtg KK tu?
Eleanor
May 20, 2009 at 10:39 pm