♥ Unpredictable Pleasure ♥

I came across this old article about a Malaysian actor / singer who suffered a marriage breakdown only after being married for 10 days, and for the record they were seeing each other for 10 years. There were all sort of stories written on the internet; the guy was gay, the girl was a club-goer, guy wants girl only because of her family wealth, girl was scared of guy who keeps blackmailing her… and the story goes on.

I did ask my boyfriend some time ago what happened to them? What’s the real story?? .. hahaha. Kepoh bah me. Since this actor/singer is his friend, maybe he’ll get the juicy stories for me? But he would only answer me ‘hmm.. dunno ohh”.. maybe he doesn’t care and not as busybody as me. The first time he told me that this actor was a friend during his school days, I was like ‘oo.. ya kah?”.. honestly, I thought he was kidding. I then only believe him that they were really friends when this actor was the one who happily approached him to say ‘Hi’ while we were buying kuih2 at the Bazaar Ramadhan near his house..I was in amazement. Haha. He’s no Weezer or Justin Timberlake, but his status as a popular actor did gave some sort of ‘whoaa’ to the whole situation. To cut the story short, it was the first time I saw this actor and his wife – maybe a year before they got married. I was still in my ’shocked’ moment and soon after they finished talking and the actor walked away, I was like “What the F***? You really know him is it???”.. Then my boyfriend was like “laa..now only you trust me??”..he started laughing at my sillyness. As for him, it was nothing I guess. Hahaha ..So we continued to do our food shopping but I was still like ‘wtf’ all the way back.

So back to my main topic. Some people say its ‘jodoh’ or ‘destiny’. If you are meant t be that person, you will be together no matter whatever the odds are. But if it is not your destiny to live with one another, then I guess nothing can change it.. the saying follows “Kalau ada jodoh tak ke mana”. But I do believe that the effort we take to be with that someone we love really matters. I’m actually a bit confused in the earlier mentioned saying “kalau ada jodoh tak ke mana’.. if we don’t actually work hard and put some effort in attracting and catch the heart of someone we fancy, I really don’t think anything will happen. Sitting down and doing nothing will not help. “Destiny’ will only pass us by right?

tbc.